Stay or Leave

everyone wanted to be you and me, I want to be too
Composer
Matthews (2003)
Song CategoryDave Matthews - Some Devil

Releases

Studio Albums: 1
Side Projects: 1
Box Sets: 1
Live Albums: 5
DMBlive Series: 2
Warehouse Discs: 1
Bonus Discs: 1
V/A Compilations - Soundtracks: 1
V/A Compilations - Promotional: 1
Live Trax Series: 7
Blenheim Vineyards Discs: 1

Song History

Along with The Long Black Veil, Eh Hee, The Maker, Gravedigger, and So Damn Lucky, this is one of just six songs that have been played by DMB, Dave & Tim, Dave & Friends, and Dave solo.

03.26.03

live debut

326 Known Plays

over 22 years

49 Days Since

last fully played (08.27.24)

19:54:14

total song time

Stats By Show Artist 

ArtistFirst ShowLast ShowAvg LengthPlay Count% Total Plays% Total Shows
Dave Matthews Band8/10/20088/27/20244:0118657.1%14.2%
Dave Matthews1/9/20046/7/20233:533611.0%21.3%
Dave Matthews & Tim Reynolds3/26/20032/17/20244:018827.0%52.7%
Dave Matthews & Friends12/12/20032/4/20065:38164.9%72.7%

Plays By Year 

Slot Count By Year 

Song Length Over Time 

Slots and Types 

Opener6 (1.8%)
Midset316 (96.9%)
Set 1 Closer2 (0.6%)
Encore2 (0.6%)
tease1
 

Longest Full Versions 

# LengthDateLocation
17:0712/13/2003Providence, RI
26:331/14/2004San Diego, CA
36:301/15/2004Los Angeles, CA
46:101/16/2004Oakland, CA
56:0412/22/2003Rosemont, IL
65:546/11/2004Manchester, TN
75:4712/20/2003Rochester, NY
85:231/12/2004Seattle, WA
95:2112/17/2003New York, NY
105:212/4/2006Paradise Island, BHS

Shortest Full Versions 

# LengthDateLocation
13:417/23/2010Washington, DC
23:439/5/2008Berkeley, CA
33:445/11/2006London, ENG
43:455/28/2020Seattle, WA
53:467/28/2011Seattle, WA

Top Segues 

#Song Count
1» Stay (Wasting Time)1
2» Trouble1
3» Dodo1